Friday, June 6, 2014

We'll take Manhattan

Our trip to New York combined joy with sadness, or the more somber things in life. The weekend started with a memorial service, and ended with a visit to Ground Zero.
 
The memorial service at the National Arts Club was for our dear friend, Carolyn French, who had been a literary agent. Carolyn meant a lot to us--but especially to Terence--and she was also an inspiring human being. She made her mark when she was in her 70s -- long after many people 'retire' their interests -- when a play named 'Wit' was mailed to her by Margaret Edson. Carolyn recognized the brilliance of the play. Edson--who became both a client and friend of Carolyn's--went on to win the Pulitzer prize. May you rest in peace, Carolyn.
 
Visiting Ground Zero, on a wicked cold day, was moving. The security we had to go through to enter Ground Zero was tougher than what we've experienced at any airport nationally, or internationally. Graham and Julia thought we were getting on a plane. I don't think the children liked Ground Zero much--they sensed that something was 'off' about the area--Graham knew that the World Trade Center buildings had 'fallen down' ("Probably due to bad construction mom") -- but at one point they realized that people had died when the buildings fell.
So, of course, the children started playing tag. They were quickly joined by another little boy. And then, of course, a police officer stopped them ;) It's definitely not a place to run around.
The 'hole' where the water continuously feeds is haunting...like Hell. I didn't like being there much, it was a lot to take in. Terence and I had been in NYC the weekend after 9-11, and we'd seen what the area looked like right after the attacks. It's still hard to believe--and it's chilling to see all of the names of the people who died there.
Not the best picture of the family, but fitting--it was cold, it was Ground Zero
 Bottomless Pit at Ground Zero
 The new building
A flower -- something to break the metal sheets of names and names of the dead.

Thursday, June 5, 2014

Happy 6th Birthday, My American Girl, Julia!

It's been a long time since this blog has been updated--thank you, Terence, for the reminder ...
Graham and Julia turned 6 on April 3...but in March, we started the celebration with a trip to NYC. It was unreal to me that it was Graham and Julia's first trip to the city--we stayed at the National Arts Club, on Gramercy Park, adjacent to our old apartment which we sold only 4 years ago. It was quite poignant to be there, to get the key to the park and have the children run around (more blog posts on that later).
 
But for Julia, and for me, a highlight was visiting the American Girl store, and eating a birthday celebration lunch (ahem--at 9:30 in the morning, the place is so booked up!). The service, view, and actually, even the food, were all good.
Julia was beside herself, so excited to be in a large building devoted to 'Her' American Girl!
Here are some photos--it was so lovely to be alone with my little one (more on Graham, upcoming).
 
 Julia poses with a cardboard cut out of a ballerina.
 "Christina" (Julia's doll), Julia and Kitty dine at the American Girl Cafe
 Birthday treats for my sweet.
 Julia, pretending to hold a flute

 Hmmm...somehow, we forgot to buy this ;) ...it's downright amazing how much money one could be coerced into spending at such a "doll" store! Lucky for me, Julia is not an Adamant Shopper!

 Pedicure on our first  night there
zzzzz Taking the Acela up to NYC from DC.